When I first saw this I was shocked,Then I started laughing next I started thinking.I started to think about all the women out there who are actually smelling d***s when their so called man comes home.It's a little bit funny but sad at the same time.
The funny part is just the thought of some woman waiting for their man to come home so she can say drop them drawers and let me smell your d**k.If you feel that you have to smell your man when he comes home why is he still considered "your man"? I also wonder after she smells the d**k is she looking for a particular fragrance?Is she going to take action and leave him alone if it doesn't smell like she feels it should?What's even crazier is the thought of her smelling him and being convinced that he's been cheating and doing nothing about it.
Why do women give so much power to men?Why do we lower our standards and accept behavior from them that we wouldn't accept from anyone else.Some sad broken down beaten down woman out there is going to have this song as their ring tone and think it's cute,It's not cute it's sad and any behavior you accept from men they will keep on dishing it.
Are we in a generation where woman feel as though they can't do any better?Do women feel that they better take what they can get and deal with the bad side and hope it will get better.Wake up sisters these men need consequences for their actions!Stop sharing Billy,Big Mike,Tank and Rod.Stop fussing about him cheating and then doing nothing to back up what you are fussing about.Get a backbone,some self confidence and Love yourself.
Sunday, April 27, 2008
Smell Yo Dick (Official Video)
Tuesday, April 1, 2008
How much you can bear
I have always heard the saying that God won't allow more to be put on you than what you can bear.When you are going thru something whether it be caused by something you did or may it be something that occurred due to something you cannot control.God knows how much each of us can deal with.Whatever the situation you happen to be faced with there is a lesson to be learned and personal and spiritual growth will occur from your experience.
I snapped on someone who has been a thorn in my side this morning.I mean I went off like a crazed person and afterwards I felt bad because I knew it was not the reaction I should have given to them pushing my buttons.I am also upset because I know that I will have to repeat this test until I have the reaction I am supposed to have which will be to acknowledge that the enemy is working thru this person to try to keep me snapping and reacting to him.Please pray for me that I overcome this.
I watched a movie the other night and the ending was what many of us do in a sense.We can be so close to a miracle or breakthrough but we get so tired and frustrated of waiting,waiting,waiting!It seems like an eternity when you are going thru something and need immediate results.If results don't come when we think they should we act on our own and the results can be disastrous!In the movie "the mist"there was a car of 5 people a father&son&lady in the front and two elderly people were sitting in the back seat .They were trying to escape large demon like creatures that appeared in the mist and then their car ran out of gas.They had seen what the creatures had done to others so they decided that their only way out was to take the gun that only had 4 bullets and commit suicide .The father shot his young son and the other passengers in the car and stepped out of the vehicle to await the monster who would surely kill him.Much to his surprise the mist started to dissipate,and he saw army vehicles with people they had rescued.The army men were burning the remains of the creatures that were in the mist.If he would have held on a little longer he would have been saved,his son would still be alive.
Don't give up when you are going thru something your salvation from the problem could just be a minute,hour or day away.
I snapped on someone who has been a thorn in my side this morning.I mean I went off like a crazed person and afterwards I felt bad because I knew it was not the reaction I should have given to them pushing my buttons.I am also upset because I know that I will have to repeat this test until I have the reaction I am supposed to have which will be to acknowledge that the enemy is working thru this person to try to keep me snapping and reacting to him.Please pray for me that I overcome this.
I watched a movie the other night and the ending was what many of us do in a sense.We can be so close to a miracle or breakthrough but we get so tired and frustrated of waiting,waiting,waiting!It seems like an eternity when you are going thru something and need immediate results.If results don't come when we think they should we act on our own and the results can be disastrous!In the movie "the mist"there was a car of 5 people a father&son&lady in the front and two elderly people were sitting in the back seat .They were trying to escape large demon like creatures that appeared in the mist and then their car ran out of gas.They had seen what the creatures had done to others so they decided that their only way out was to take the gun that only had 4 bullets and commit suicide .The father shot his young son and the other passengers in the car and stepped out of the vehicle to await the monster who would surely kill him.Much to his surprise the mist started to dissipate,and he saw army vehicles with people they had rescued.The army men were burning the remains of the creatures that were in the mist.If he would have held on a little longer he would have been saved,his son would still be alive.
Don't give up when you are going thru something your salvation from the problem could just be a minute,hour or day away.
Saturday, March 29, 2008
God is Faithful
I recently had an attitude adjustment concerning things which I can't do anything about.I used to pout, sulk and worry all day.I now pray and whenever I feel that depression coming on I pray even more.Just during this week God has shown himself faithful to me.I keep saying over and over again in my head He knows my situation and he knows about my transportation problems my financial concerns and he knows about our necessities and I'm not going to worry.Down to Malachi's last pullup,down to one roll of toilet tissue,no gas money and worn down brakes he moved on my behalf.I am grateful that I can go to the store in a few hours and get the things we need.Trust God He will show himself faithful to you too.
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Why are you so angry?
Time lost with loved ones.Years missing from your memory, every things a blur.Drug and alcohol abuse have robbed you of the prime time of your life.Instead of building your dream home and settling down with the person of your dreams you were chasing a high or a feeling that could never be duplicated after that fist high.Your children are all grown up,you are behind in the times,not familiar with the technology of today.You've been awakened from a trance,Why are you so angry?
You have overcome the demons of drugs and alcohol,you've started from scratch. A brand new beginning,new family ,new surroundings, a whole new you .You've gone from sleeping in abandoned buildings,eating out of dumpsters ,to eating steak and shrimp and having a warm and stable home to come home to,Why are you so angry?
The people who are close to you, you are pushing away .Anger and frustration over mistakes you have made in the past have taken hold and you can't stand to see anyone happy because you are not.No one can change the past,we can only work towards insuring a better future .Why are you so angry?
You have overcome the demons of drugs and alcohol,you've started from scratch. A brand new beginning,new family ,new surroundings, a whole new you .You've gone from sleeping in abandoned buildings,eating out of dumpsters ,to eating steak and shrimp and having a warm and stable home to come home to,Why are you so angry?
The people who are close to you, you are pushing away .Anger and frustration over mistakes you have made in the past have taken hold and you can't stand to see anyone happy because you are not.No one can change the past,we can only work towards insuring a better future .Why are you so angry?
Sunday, March 23, 2008
What was on his mind?
Yesterday the kids dyed Eggs and fixed their Easter baskets.Today we went to church and afterwards,I turned to my 3 youngest Melia 6,Maliq 4and Malachi 3 and told them when they got home they could get their baskets and eat the chips and juice that was inside.Melia looked at me and said I don't have any chips.I questioned her as to what happened to them.She then informed me that Justin her 11 year old brother had made a trade with her.I knew something was fishy about the trade before even asking what she got in return.I said o.k. what did you trade your bag of flaming hots for and she happily said" An easter egg". Needless to say,I was very disappointed that her brother played on her innocence and made a bogus trade like that.How is he gonna trade her an Easter egg that I boiled and should've been in her basket in the first place.I just shook my head and waited for mr. negotiator to walk home from church .When he got in he sat on the couch,I asked him why he made A trade like that.He burst out in laughter which let me know he knew he was wrong.I asked him how he planned on fixing it and he planned on apologizing but I told him that wasn't good enough and to come up with something else.He walked to Burger King and bought his lunch with the money he earned from pulling weeds at the neighbors house and he came back and gave melia a small order of fries.I was pleased with his way of paying her back and she was too.I would've been really worried if he didn't see anything wrong with what he did!
Friday, March 21, 2008
Do You Trust GOD?
Do you trust God?Hmmm,I always said that I did but my actions showed otherwise
I was brought up to pray about my problems and forget about them and know that God will work everything out the way it's supposed to be.It may not turn out the way we expect for it to at that time but within time everything makes sense.
As I sat on the couch and prayed last night,I had a shocking revelation something I had never really thought about.I have always put trust in man but have neglected to trust God with my situations and circumstances.I would say I had faith as many of us do but I now realize I didn't.Some very important decisions that I have made I've trusted man and not God to be my provider.Man will let you down time after time because they are only human.
When you are a housewife and you depend on your husband to bring home the bacon what happens if he gets hurt on the job and can no longer work.No income coming in kids looking at you crazy cause they don't have the things they need,bills piling up disconnection notices coming in even faster,what do you do?What you have been putting your trust in has failed you,your hands are tied there is nothing that you can do, no help for you to receive there is no easy fix you need money and you needed it 3 weeks ago.
Basic necessities and toiletries you are unable to afford.Your vehicle starts acting crazy and you can't get around even if you had the gas money to put in it.Easter is fast approaching,proms graduations, birthdays and anniversaries.The pressure is on you are stripped down to nothing.Do you trust God then or do You continue to try and find another way.
The revelation was shocking as I had said before.After everything else had failed me I still didn't trust God.I came up with illegal schemes,and even considered prostitution.All the while I'm praying and saying that I believe and I have faith but time the praying stops I'm back plotting and scheming.Sometimes it takes you being stripped down to barely nothing for you to be able to clearly hear God's voice talking to you,Its a shame that we don't listen when things are going good,we block God out and are too busy doing whatever you deem to be important.
Trusting God and having faith in him is of utmost importance.What man cannot do God can do.He knows our individual situations and will work things out in his own way in his own time.Every difficult situation you face when you yourself alone cannot solve the problem is opportunity for a miracle.I'm waiting on mine how about you?
I was brought up to pray about my problems and forget about them and know that God will work everything out the way it's supposed to be.It may not turn out the way we expect for it to at that time but within time everything makes sense.
As I sat on the couch and prayed last night,I had a shocking revelation something I had never really thought about.I have always put trust in man but have neglected to trust God with my situations and circumstances.I would say I had faith as many of us do but I now realize I didn't.Some very important decisions that I have made I've trusted man and not God to be my provider.Man will let you down time after time because they are only human.
When you are a housewife and you depend on your husband to bring home the bacon what happens if he gets hurt on the job and can no longer work.No income coming in kids looking at you crazy cause they don't have the things they need,bills piling up disconnection notices coming in even faster,what do you do?What you have been putting your trust in has failed you,your hands are tied there is nothing that you can do, no help for you to receive there is no easy fix you need money and you needed it 3 weeks ago.
Basic necessities and toiletries you are unable to afford.Your vehicle starts acting crazy and you can't get around even if you had the gas money to put in it.Easter is fast approaching,proms graduations, birthdays and anniversaries.The pressure is on you are stripped down to nothing.Do you trust God then or do You continue to try and find another way.
The revelation was shocking as I had said before.After everything else had failed me I still didn't trust God.I came up with illegal schemes,and even considered prostitution.All the while I'm praying and saying that I believe and I have faith but time the praying stops I'm back plotting and scheming.Sometimes it takes you being stripped down to barely nothing for you to be able to clearly hear God's voice talking to you,Its a shame that we don't listen when things are going good,we block God out and are too busy doing whatever you deem to be important.
Trusting God and having faith in him is of utmost importance.What man cannot do God can do.He knows our individual situations and will work things out in his own way in his own time.Every difficult situation you face when you yourself alone cannot solve the problem is opportunity for a miracle.I'm waiting on mine how about you?
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
Stranger in my bed
Sometimes decisions we make are based on the emotions we feel at that time.We don't always think things through and weigh the good and bad aspects of things .Jumping into things with our hormones raging and no thoughts of tomorrow,a lot of us are guilty of this .
What is your reaction when you wake up one morning and realize theres a stranger in your bed?Pure horror right,think about going to bed next to that person every night and waking up feeling like he's a complete stranger.Think about if this person is the one you chose to be your mate,that's even more horrifying!How do you recover from this?Do you continue to be miserable and pretend that nothing is wrong or do you confront the issue and move on?
What if you realize you have nothing in common with you spouse ?The days of the hot and steamy romance are long gone,the kids are demanding and your spouse is stuck in the past when there were no children and less responsibilities.
Think about it, when you first meet someone and you are being swept off your feet you hardly ever pay attention to those little flaws you see in the other person.You may overlook the fact that he or she is not that bright mentally.You may also overlook their tendency to get jealous.You may even overlook the fact that their earning potential is minimal at best thinking that Love will help you get through hard times.I am here to tell you I have never seen love pay one bill! Critical things to overlook,how does a person recover?
Do you have a stranger in your bed?
What is your reaction when you wake up one morning and realize theres a stranger in your bed?Pure horror right,think about going to bed next to that person every night and waking up feeling like he's a complete stranger.Think about if this person is the one you chose to be your mate,that's even more horrifying!How do you recover from this?Do you continue to be miserable and pretend that nothing is wrong or do you confront the issue and move on?
What if you realize you have nothing in common with you spouse ?The days of the hot and steamy romance are long gone,the kids are demanding and your spouse is stuck in the past when there were no children and less responsibilities.
Think about it, when you first meet someone and you are being swept off your feet you hardly ever pay attention to those little flaws you see in the other person.You may overlook the fact that he or she is not that bright mentally.You may also overlook their tendency to get jealous.You may even overlook the fact that their earning potential is minimal at best thinking that Love will help you get through hard times.I am here to tell you I have never seen love pay one bill! Critical things to overlook,how does a person recover?
Do you have a stranger in your bed?
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