Mother

The best reward You can give me as a mother is the success of my children.I holler, scream and yell sometimes to get my point across to my children but I mean well.Their success is important to me,it shows that the advice the teaching the yelling and screaming has all paid off.It's hard to sit by and watch your children go down the wrong path when you of course from experience know where that path is going to lead.


I have seen families where there are many children and all the children with the exception of 1 or 2 turn out to be crack heads,prostitutes or just bums.This must be heartbreaking for that mother,I don't want the pleasure of knowing how she deals with this situation or how she must feel.Where did that mother go wrong?Yes I know that children will do what they want when they are out of your sight but prostitution and crack use is the extreme.

Being a mother is hard.I am not growing flowers here I am molding and developing human beings.It's a huge responsibility and it should not be taken lightly.I have to watch the character that is emerging from each child and try to steer them in the right direction when I see their personality taking a turn for the worse.

What does a mother do to ensure the next crack user or prostitute wont be her child?What will you do to ensure that next crack user or prostitute wont be your child?

Tear,Tear

I have grown very emotional in my old age.I cry whenever one of my children accomplishes a great goal.I just can't control it.One of my 11 year olds who has adhd brought his report card home the other day and I hugged him and cried.He thought I was nuts but he appreciated the hug.He has made major improvement since he has been put on meds.He has gone from flunking every subject to passing them all.He even received student of the month and a lot of privileges .



My oldest son who has had a rough time in school received a full scholarship
to college.Tears well up in my eyes whenever I tell anyone about him,I try
to control it but I can't.I guess I know where he's come from and how hard
it was for him to make it where he is today that is so touching.His
graduation is coming up and I better come equipped with some shades!

Which child do you trust?

I have 7 children and I am very observant of their good and bad characteristics.It's very disturbing to me that the child I always thought would be most responsible is not.If something happened to me I couldn't trust this child with my life insurance.However there is another child that I would trust with my life.I know I would be well taken care of in my old age and I know that whatever earthly possessions I have accumulated when I leave this earth could be entrusted to this child.


It's scary to see one of your children's personalities take a turn for the worse.Selfishness,self centeredness and just plain ole for self.If you have not taken notice or have not even thought about it yet,this is something very serious that every parent should think about.Which of your children could or would you trust with your life

Mothers

Mothers are unappreciated overworked and overstressed.How is a mother supposed to feel when she can't enjoy the one day of the year that has been set aside for her to celebrate all that she is and the contributions she makes for her family all year long?

Disgruntled and hurt ,a mother who loves her children will continue to Love,continue to give despite feeling that her sacrifices go unnoticed and unappreciated.I wish I could go on strike sometimes but being a mother is one of those jobs you can't just walk out on no matter how rough it gets.

Maybe when those ungrateful& selfish children are all grown up they will realize the sacrifices that their mother made to ensure their happiness.Borrowing money for a prom dress,matching accessories hair&nail shops when the electricity bill was well overdue and the lights were out.
I guess kids do a lot of heart breaking things but mothers just let it roll right off their backs.

When will mother's receive the recognition they deserve?I suppose just knowing you are doing the best that you can will have to be recognition enough!Trips to the candy store,outings with friends,all their money is spent when mothers day comes around can't even afford a card, but a mother will keep on loving and keep on giving with hopes of one day being appreciated for all that she is and does.

He Claims to have Infected 12,000 Young Girls With HIV

This is horrible!although this is very wrong this is very real.I think this should be shown in sex ed classes all over.Sad as it may be he is telling the truth about girls being materialistic and not taking responsibility for their own safety.

This is enough to scare anyone into abstinence.This should be shown to all daughters who are having sex or contemplating it.This is very serious and AIDS kills.

I feel bad for this generation coming up.There is so much going on that wasn't when we were coming up.All we can really do is equip them with the information they need to survive and hope and pray that they listen and learn from our life experiences so they don't fall into trouble.This video is a great topic for discussion please show it to your daughters I'm going to show it to mine(WELL at least one of them the other is too young!)

Smell Yo Dick (Official Video)

When I first saw this I was shocked,Then I started laughing next I started thinking.I started to think about all the women out there who are actually smelling d***s when their so called man comes home.It's a little bit funny but sad at the same time.


The funny part is just the thought of some woman waiting for their man to come home so she can say drop them drawers and let me smell your d**k.If you feel that you have to smell your man when he comes home why is he still considered "your man"? I also wonder after she smells the d**k is she looking for a particular fragrance?Is she going to take action and leave him alone if it doesn't smell like she feels it should?What's even crazier is the thought of her smelling him and being convinced that he's been cheating and doing nothing about it.

Why do women give so much power to men?Why do we lower our standards and accept behavior from them that we wouldn't accept from anyone else.Some sad broken down beaten down woman out there is going to have this song as their ring tone and think it's cute,It's not cute it's sad and any behavior you accept from men they will keep on dishing it.


Are we in a generation where woman feel as though they can't do any better?Do women feel that they better take what they can get and deal with the bad side and hope it will get better.Wake up sisters these men need consequences for their actions!Stop sharing Billy,Big Mike,Tank and Rod.Stop fussing about him cheating and then doing nothing to back up what you are fussing about.Get a backbone,some self confidence and Love yourself.

How much you can bear

I have always heard the saying that God won't allow more to be put on you than what you can bear.When you are going thru something whether it be caused by something you did or may it be something that occurred due to something you cannot control.God knows how much each of us can deal with.Whatever the situation you happen to be faced with there is a lesson to be learned and personal and spiritual growth will occur from your experience.

I snapped on someone who has been a thorn in my side this morning.I mean I went off like a crazed person and afterwards I felt bad because I knew it was not the reaction I should have given to them pushing my buttons.I am also upset because I know that I will have to repeat this test until I have the reaction I am supposed to have which will be to acknowledge that the enemy is working thru this person to try to keep me snapping and reacting to him.Please pray for me that I overcome this.

I watched a movie the other night and the ending was what many of us do in a sense.We can be so close to a miracle or breakthrough but we get so tired and frustrated of waiting,waiting,waiting!It seems like an eternity when you are going thru something and need immediate results.If results don't come when we think they should we act on our own and the results can be disastrous!In the movie "the mist"there was a car of 5 people a father&son&lady in the front and two elderly people were sitting in the back seat .They were trying to escape large demon like creatures that appeared in the mist and then their car ran out of gas.They had seen what the creatures had done to others so they decided that their only way out was to take the gun that only had 4 bullets and commit suicide .The father shot his young son and the other passengers in the car and stepped out of the vehicle to await the monster who would surely kill him.Much to his surprise the mist started to dissipate,and he saw army vehicles with people they had rescued.The army men were burning the remains of the creatures that were in the mist.If he would have held on a little longer he would have been saved,his son would still be alive.
Don't give up when you are going thru something your salvation from the problem could just be a minute,hour or day away.